Control Central

 My dining table is always covered with bills, magazines, my purse, and of  course, the flower arrangement which you can’t see for all the clutter. I  struggle to keep it cleaned off and envy those beautiful tabletops in magazines with the centerpiece and place settings ready to sit down to Thanksgiving dinner.

Why do I always end up with piles of clutter on mine? As I recall, it all started in 1973 when we bought our first home, a 12-wide mobile home. A bar  separated the kitchen/dining area and the living room and I could sew or work on my bills and watch TV in the living room.

In our next house, the kitchen/dining area was separated from the living room by a wall. I put a TV on the buffet in the dining area. Again I could  sew, pay bills, watch the kids do homework, cook, all from my dining table.

When we moved into this home, which has a large living room, with the dining room and the kitchen separated by a bar, I thought things would be  different. I have a sewing table in the spare bedroom and TVs in almost every room. I have a desk for my computer and bills in the living room and a desk in the bedroom. Still I find myself at the dining table working on my laptop just like before.

Today I realized the dining table has been my CONTROL CENTRAL in all our homes. My mind thinks that the dining table is my office, but that is no longer true. Now my desk is my office and I need to remind myself daily of that fact and not continue to use my dining room as my office.

Romans 12:2 NKJV says “do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed  by the renewing of your mind.” You must reprogram your mind with right thinking.”

The way to change our behavior is to change our thinking.

The Honeysuckle Vines

Honeysuckle

THE HONEYSUCKLE VINE

We kids loved to play around in our yard. Our mama had a variety of flowers and plants.

We had a rose bush right outside the back door that we called the Edward rosebush named for our little brother. With tiny red roses and thousands of tiny sharp thorns, it was hazardous, but we learned how to get close enough to pick the tiny rose. Pulling each little petal, we licked our little fingernails and put the petal on, to pretend our fingernails were painted red.

The clover was all around the yard, soft and sweet, so we lay in the yard going through the clover, looking for that lucky four-leaf clover. We picked the white flowers from the clover, split the stem, and linked them together to make a necklace.

Mother had honeysuckle vines too. I think she probably planted it on purpose, but soon found that it tried to take over the fence row. I can remember her working in the heat of the summer trying to chop out the honeysuckle to keep it from breaking down the fence. Once the honeysuckle took over, it tended to kill out the bush it was growing on.

We kids loved the honeysuckle too. We picked the little flower and sucked the nectar out of the neck of the flower, and sometimes wondered why Mama was working so hard to get rid of such a pretty flowering vine.
 By faith Moses, when he became of age, refused to be called the son of Pharaoh’s daughter,  choosing rather to suffer affliction with the people of God than to enjoy the passing pleasures of sin.” Hebrews 11:24-25 NKJV. Yes, sin does have pleasure for a season, but after a while sin breaks everything down and then kills.

When we make the choice that Moses made, we will become the person God intends for us to be. Moses first refused to enjoy the pleasures of sin and then he chose to join the people of God as their deliverer, even if it meant giving up all the things he could have had in Egypt.

What a good way to live. Refusing sin and choosing to follow God.

 

Quoting Mother

I find myself quoting my mother a lot lately. Like when someone had a run in her hose, mother always said, “Just keep them looking at your face.” Or she would say, “No one will ever notice on a galloping horse.”

Mother loved to quote the Bible, “And as ye would that men should do to you, do ye alo to them likewise” Luke 6:31. Or “To him that knoweth to do good and doeth it not, to him it is sin” James 4:17.

There is no arguing with a mother who quotes the Word of God to you.

How often do we quote the most important person in the world? What God has to say about any given situation is more important than what anyone else says. When you stand face to face with a problem, it really doesn’t matter what you think or what anyone else thinks. What matters is what God has to say about it.

The words written in ink on a page of a book have no power. Having a Bible on your coffee table is good, but the greatest Book ever written is just paper and ink until the words are spoken. The Word of God does you no good if you don’t properly use it. How did God Himself use it? He spoke it. So how do you properly use it? You have to speak it.

For instance, when facing a pile of bills that must be paid right now, speak God’s Word that says, “My God shall supply all my need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus” Phil 4:19.

 Just believing in your heart that God will supply all your need is sweet, it is good, but it is not enough. You access the power of God’s Word by speaking it.

The power of God is in the spoken Word of God, so start quoting God.

Flood Times

With all the rain that we’ve had lately, it brings memories of the Bull Creek floods of 1959, 1960, and 1999 in Vinita, Oklahoma. We lived through them all.

In about 1947, Mother and Dad bought a piece of property on North Second Street that was backed up by Bull Creek. Granddad and Dad built a 2-room block house on the new property. My mother who is 97 this year still lives in this home, which was added onto in the late 1950s and again in 1980s.

In the early spring of 1959, the creek started rising while we were in school. My sister talks about walking home from Riverside Elementary School, wading water, holding onto the bridge rail hand-over-hand on the sidewalk over the creek until she reached the end of the bridge.

I remember carrying a little girl we babysat for out of the house in water up to my chest and walking with her in my arms up to the north end of the block where the ground was higher. Quite an experience for a 10-year-old girl.

We were flooded again in 1960 and I remember putting my feet on the floor into water up to my ankles.

Our last flood was in May of 1999, the day after the tornado of Moore, Ok., which so many people remember. When Mother was interviewed after the flood, she said, “I’m fine. I just feel bad for those people in the tornado. They lost everything. I still have my stuff, it’s just wet.”

Each time we were flooded, the creek got up 3 feet high in the house. God has taken us through all the floods. He’s never failed us yet.

Isaiah 43:1-2 NIV says, “Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze. For I am the Lord your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior.”

We’ve got a promise from God that He will be with us in the flood.

 

Learning the Old Songs

When I was going through a divorce back in 1974 and desperate for God, I attended church one Sunday morning. As I walked through the door, one of my friends from work motioned for me to sit by her. As far as she knew, I hadn’t ever gone to church, so I knew she was surprised and questioning.

I shared her hymnal when we stood for congregational singing and sang each song, barely looking at the words. After the service was dismissed, she told me how glad she was that I had come that morning and then she said, “I just have one question. Why do you know all the words to the songs?” I was caught. I had been trying so hard not to be that little girl who was raised in church, but in times of trouble, the words to the songs came back to me.

Start singing Amazing Grace in a crowded bar and before long, you will have every drunk in the place crying in their beer. They learned that song in Sunday School or Vacation Bible school, taken by a grandmother or aunt that wanted them to experience the songs and stories of the Bible. it is the most recorded song of all time.

But now we have a new generation who don’t know the words of the hymns by heart. Many of this generation have never been in Sunday school or Vacation Bible school. They don’t know the words to Amazing Grace or Blessed Assurance or Onward Christian Soldiers.

I love the new music that is being used in most churches, including ours. The songs with the Word of God in them resonate and burn themselves into our hearts. I love to sing songs that cause me to look to the Lord and worship Him, but time will only tell if those songs become the classics which are sung around the world in every language. A classic must be singable, without words and music to go by.

We won’t have to try to memorize them; we will sing them by heart, because the true classic song speaks to our hearts.

Missing Piece

 My family got me a bread machine. Breadmaking is now fast and easy; well, faster and easier than breadmaking used to be.

Mother combined the yeast and water, then mixed it with the flour and other ingredients. Next she kneaded the bread, taking one side of the lump of dough and folding it over the other, time after time. The longer she kneaded, the better the bread would be. Then she would cover it with a clean cloth and set it aside usually on the top of the stove, where the
pilot light provided just enough heat for the dough to rise. An hour later, when the dough had risen to double its size, she punched the dough down, kneaded it a little more, pinched it off into rolls, which she placed on a greased cookie sheet to rise the second time and baked till a lovely brown.

There was no one who ever turned down her rolls and cinnamon rolls. 25 years as a cook in the school cafeteria made her one of the best bread bakers in town.

Ok, so my bread is not as good as mom’s, but it is good. I got my bread machine out to make bread recently. I opened my package of bread mix, put the water in the bottom of the machine’s bowl, the flour on top of that and the yeast on top of that. I started the machine and then went about my day,  cleaning house. I came back about 30 minutes later to check on the bread and found that the machine was running but nothing was happening. There was no bread that day. It was a flop.

When I took the dough out, cleaned it all up and investigated, I discovered that there was a little plastic paddle missing from the bottom of the dough bowl. That piece stirs and kneads the dough. Without it, there  will be no bread. My $50 bread machine is worthless without that piece. I called the bread machine company and they sent me a new paddle free of
charge.

Maybe you are like that little plastic paddle–small, inexpensive, not very important looking. You may think that you don’t
matter. If you miss church this Sunday, no one will even notice. You think, “They have so many other people that they will never miss me,” but the truth is that every person has value and importance in the plan of God.

I Corinthians 12:27 says “Now you are the body of Christ and each one of you is a part of it.”

You might be the important little plastic paddle in God’s breadmaker.